When men visit Thailand, a unique phenomenon can occur. By the holiday’s end, many find themselves in romantic relationships with bar girls or “happy massage” girls; that is women who are, for all intents and purposes, sex workers.
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When men visit Thailand, a unique phenomenon can occur. By the holiday’s end, many find themselves in romantic relationships with bar girls or “happy massage” girls; that is women who are, for all intents and purposes, sex workers.
It’s a unique situation because the same men would likely avoid or feel uncomfortable dating prostitutes in their home countries. Yet in Thailand, some go beyond simple “pay for play” and enter into romantic relationships.
Why does this happen, and why does it often end badly?
There are several factors at play, all of which stem from complex emotional needs, cultural misunderstandings, and idealized perceptions. Below, I’ll explore some of the reasons why men fall in love with bar girls and massage girls, and the often harsh reality that follows.
Please note: My observations are not intended to demean sex workers or imply that they are in any way…